The daemon owns the program's lifetime, so the terminal it was started in
was also the only place that program could be stopped from. M-x flan-dev
builds, launches and connects; M-x flan-dev-quit ends it.
It waits for a connection rather than for the socket file to appear: the
daemon unlinks a stale socket before binding, so waiting on the file either
succeeds instantly against nothing or races the unlink. And when the daemon
dies before binding — which for a program that does not compile is the
ordinary failure — the refusal names its buffer, because that is where the
compiler's reason is and nothing this end sees says it.